A safer tone starts with clear expectations.

Respect every member. No judgement, ridicule, or piling on.

This is peer support, not therapy or emergency crisis care.

Protect privacy. Do not share another member’s story outside the community.

Anonymous posting is for safety, honesty, and support — not abuse.

Listeners and moderators can step in to protect the space when needed.

If someone appears at immediate risk, signpost urgent support services clearly.